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#hwtujuibado If you cannot get what you love out of this life, then learn to love and cherish the things that have been handed to you, because they are there and they are yours, don't chase the impossible, if you can't be who you want to be in life then learn to be the things you're not, and if you can't get what you need from life then learn to need the things that stop you from dreaming, but by all means necessary keep moving on, and should the universe turn its back on you then do the same, don't let the universe get the best of you, just COMPROMISE. Our goal this year, after many years now, is to turn setbacks into comebacks, journey with Me as we re write our fates.

#hwtujuiBado This is to everyone who  loves and enjoys good music. I present you CutBoy Msonga  alongside Kamodo in #kadogo .   ENJOY 😎 🌴| issagoodmusicthingonly

#hwtujuibado     "One hour at a time, one value-driven decision at a time.  That’s all we’re really talking about here.  Just maximizing the significance of our short lives, and making a small difference along the way." >>We Determine the True Value of Every Hour Our lives are measured by the value we provide to others.  This value arises from the things we spend our time doing.  And since time is quantified in hours, the value of our lives is equivalent to the sum of every hour we spend. Opportunities to provide value are everywhere.  Some of them are anticipated, while others blindside us at midnight on an idle Tuesday.  Whether or not we choose to acknowledge and engage in these opportunities is up to us. | How have you spent the last hour of your life? Let this question sink in.  Let it inspire you… Let yourself come to see just how precious a gift it is to find value in the loving gestures you disp...

# hwtujuibado   Hello, how's life treating you today? I come to you with yet another article, and today my eyes are on the "need for social jurisdiction and approval." I know we have all been at this position many times in  life. The position where we let the views of the mass dectate our way of life.  Feeling down whenever we think we are not good enough, or unworthy of something. I want you to know that you are not alone in this, and the good news is you can free yourself from such negative rut. Welcome !  "We think we need more approval from the masses ." 🤗 "We worry about what other people think of us.  We worry about our appearance."   We worry if she’ll like us.  We worry if he likes that other woman .  We worry that we’re not accomplishing all that we should be .   We worry that we’ll fall flat on our faces.  We worry that we’re not enough just the way we are.  And of course, we worry about all thos...

#hwtujuibado 👋 | Hello everyone .   My hopes.... life's treating you just the same way you treat it. My eyes are on social media today... and with this 'short' article,  I hope to open your eyes too on some  impeccable reality about it.  | We think we need all those text messages, social updates, memes, and perfect Instagram pics ! If it entertains you now but will hurt or bore you someday, it’s a distraction.  Don’t settle.    Don’t exchange what you want most for what you kind of want at the moment.   Study your habits.  Figure out where your time goes, and remove distractions.  It’s time to focus on what matters. A good place to start? Learn to be more human again.   Don’t avoid eye contact.  Don’t hide behind gadgets.  Smile often.  Ask about people’s stories.  Listen.  You can’t connect with anyone, including yourself, unless you are undistracted and present.  And yo...

#hwtujuibado  ☆ Sometimes it gets so busy and difficult that we forget how important it is to actually listen to ourselves.   We fill our calendars, our social media feeds, and our days with various forms of distraction, just to avoid doing the little uncomfortable things required to get us from where we are to where we hope to be.   The instant we feel a bit of discomfort, we run off in the direction of the nearest shiny object that catches our attention.  And this habit gradually dismantles our best intentions and our true potential.  Our dreams and priorities go by the wayside, and we’re left regretting another wasted year. Yes, most of us suffer from a severe misalignment of our priorities, even though, deep down, we know our lives are quickly passing us by. | °If you can relate in any way, I’m happy to tell you that things can change if you want them to, at any age. Good Luck 💪

#hwtujuibado Life can be hectic; sometimes chaos surrounds us in every imaginable direction. But just because the world around us is in disarray, doesn’t mean the world within us has to be too. That’s right, I’m saying there’s a way to stay sane in insane times. I’m saying you can get rid of all the insanity inside you created by others, the past, and uncontrollable events… Just by being a simple witness of your thoughts. It’s about sitting silently, and witnessing the thoughts passing through you. Just witnessing at first, not interfering and not even judging, because by judging too rapidly you have lost the pure witness. The moment you rush to say, “this is good” or “this is bad,” you have already jumped head first into the chaos. It takes a little time to create a gap between the witnessing of thoughts and your reaction to them. Once the gap is there, though, you are in for a great surprise – that you are not the thoughts themselves, nor the chaos influencing them. ...

If you are struggling right now, you’ve got this! No matter your circumstances,  you always have what you need to take the next smallest step . Or as Epicurus so profoundly said, “Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.” Be mindful.  Be present. Keep going. One day at a time, one small step at a time.

            🕴 |🌴   |  Ten years from now,  it won’t really matter what shoes you wore today,  how your hair looked, or what brand of clothes you wore.  | What will matter is how you lived, how you loved,  and what you learned along the way. Deep down you know this already, right? https://www.instagram.com/thunderboy_himself/

Give yourself the extra attention you need and deserve. Resisting and ignoring your own feelings and emotions does not serve you.  It leads to stress, illness, confusion, broken relationships, fits of anger and bouts of deep, dark depression.  Anyone who has experienced any of the above knows that these states of mind are horrifically unhealthy… and when you’re in the habit of self-neglect, it’s near impossible to escape. You have to admit, to a certain extent, you have spent too much of your life trying to shrink yourself.   Trying to become smaller.  Quieter.  Less sensitive.  Less opinionated.  Less needy.  Less YOU.  Because you felt broken, and you didn’t want to be too much or push people away.  You wanted to fit in.  You wanted people to like you.  You wanted to make a good impression.  You wanted to be wanted.  So you could feel healed. So for years, you sacrificed yourself for the sake of making other peopl...

The reason a real man treats himself and others with respect is because he has standards. Not just standards, but HIGH STANDARDS. He sets the bar high. He has a clear line drawn on what is and isn’t acceptable. He’s clear on how he treats himself, women, and how those around him treat him. He doesn’t accept any bullshit from himself, women, or those around him. He knows what he wants and doesn’t want in his life and he sticks to it. Real men never brag no matter how great their life is. They let their actions speak for them. Real men never show off. They let their life speak for them. Real men are mature. Real men are classy. A man with class walks, talks, and holds himself with class and tact. He listens when others speak and doesn’t try to talk over them. He has manners and knows how to conduct himself.

シ Words Of Gratitude "Make it a habit to tell people thank you. To express your appreciation, sincerely and without the expactation of anything in return." √•Truly appreciate those around you, and you will soon find many other around you. √•Truly appreciate life and you will find that you have more of it. Eid Went Down Well. With The Learned Leasson. Always Humble.シ